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Do you want to experience continuous mind-blowing, bone-shaking multi-orgasmic pleasure from head to toe? Then this is the site for you!

At True TrueHandsFree, we aim to serve both as an educational as well as an entertainment resource for male prostate/anal health and pleasure.

Whether anal play is brand new to you or you're an experienced practitioner, the info and videos here will help teach you a variety of techniques and fundamentals. They will also provide you with new ideas and if you're in the category of the unconvinced, they will prove to you that a new earth shattering orgasmic journey is yours for the taking. A journey that you never thought possible. Yes, your entire body from head to toe can experience multiple non-stop orgasms for as long as you desire. And these anal-centered orgasms put pure penile orgasms to shame.

So...There are two main ways a male can enjoy sex when he's on the receiving end, penile or anal, and, yes, they can be combined.

The ways to enjoy anal pleasures are endless. It is only your imagination that sets the limits.

Let's get one thing straight right off the bat: Your sexuality is determined by who you are having sex with and not by what kind of sex you're having. This means that a heterosexual woman who enjoys receiving anal sex is not a gay man!

A few decades ago, you'd often be frowned upon as a heterosexual male if you told your friends that you were into anal play. The stigma associated with a male and his butt goes back a long, long time. And while it is still around in today's society, its presence is, thankfully, encountered to a much lesser degree. As a result of this new development over the past years, more and more heterosexual men have discovered the treasure trove of pleasure that can be experienced through anal play. In short, today more heterosexual men are experimenting anally than ever before and this trend is only showing its trajectory in one direction, Up! - As in a rapid exponential growth. And for extremely good reasons too ??

To satisfy this ever growing demand, in fact you'd be hard pressed not to call it a revolution, adult toy stores are continuously offering more and more products targeting the male's anal anatomy. As a result, a huge variety of anal and prostate dildos, massagers, beads, plugs, thrusters, inflatables, etc. are now readily available via mailorder through online shops or sitting physically on the shelves at the brick and mortar stores. Similarly, the subject of male anal play in the media, so often considered a taboo subject in the past, has now entered mainstream movies, TV shows, talk shows, podcasts and a slew of other media outlets and platforms.

Human males are all born the exact same way, that is we are all equipped identically with the same anal anatomy which includes our prostate. God made us the way we are and by doing so gave each of us the ability to experience incredible mind- and body-shaking pleasure. This feature, whether presently dormant or active, is installed inside each and every one of us men. It is ours and it can be turned on by physical as well as cerebral means.

Therefore, you are either actively enjoying anal pleasure or, if not, you have the ability to start enjoying it. It is up to only one determining factor, you guessed it, you!

Health-wise it has long been known that a prostate massage is beneficial for your prostate health. 35,000 men die of prostate cancer in the USA on an annual basis. In Asia, where prostate massage is widely practiced, this death rate per capita is considerably lower. There are of course many other factors in play, but many experts agree that regularly scheduled prostate massages benefit prostate health. Other factors linked to your prostate health are, you guessed it, exercise and diet. This means that if you want to kill three birds with one rock, insert your prostate massager, grab an apple and go for a nice long walk!

The specific way your male body is constructed means that it contains a seemingly endless number of erogenous zones including erogenous nerve endings. Each of these zones are either active or dormant. For each of us, certain zones have always felt erogenous to the touch while others have not. As a result, some are already awake while others may be awakened given the right mindset, education and practice. I for example always thought that my nipples were all but dead when it came to feeling anything remotely exciting upon them being touched. Stupid me told many a girlfriend not to bother with my nipples as I just didn't feel anything when she tried to caress them. However, much to my own surprise, I later learned how to activate them so to speak and I can now achieve extreme pleasure by focusing my touch and mindset solely on my nipples. I'd never thought it possible. Not in a million years. Note that I wrote "touching". By touching I do not mean it as having to always be a physical touch. No, my friend, simply imagining in my mind that they are being caressed and played with without any physical touch can also do the trick. Very nicely I might add! The same applies to anal play.

It goes without saying that if your friend finds great pleasure in having his ears caressed, it does not necessarily mean that you will also like that particular touch. We are all different when it comes to what turns us on and that is what makes each of us great and unique. However, we all like to get our penis touched, don't we? Similarly, when it comes to anal/prostate play, we all like to get touched. Some of us just don't know it yet. Again, all it takes is to activate this amazing feature of yours that is already residing inside your body, patiently waiting for you to switch the "off" button to its "on" position.

I shouldn't have to tell you that traditional penile orgasms are wonderful and should never be given up upon. Of course not. Prostate/anal orgasms are simply another way, a radically different way, for you to enjoy sex. There are no two orgasms that are completely identical and this also goes for both penile and anal orgasms when looked at separately. However, generally speaking, having a penile orgasm compared to an anal orgasm is like riding the commuter train for seconds vs. riding a roller coaster for minutes. I have tried both of these rides so I know what I'm talking about!

As mentioned, penile and anal orgasms can be combined. However, as great as such orgasms can be, they would of course not classify as a handsfree anal orgasm which is what we are all about here at True TrueHandsFree.com. To enjoy a true handsfree anal orgasm, you need to completely forget about your penis during your anal play session. Make sure that it is not rubbing up against anything as that could trigger it to want to get involved which would shift the focus away from your anal area. The penis has a powerful mind of its own and would love to get involved, but don't let it. You want to focus and concentrate on your anal region and the pleasure waves that radiates from this epicenter to all parts of your body. If you're just beginning this activity, your anal adventures, be patient. If you try to chase the orgasmic anal wave, it becomes counterproductive - it needs to come to you and not the other way around. So just relax during your sessions and great things will happen eventually. It could be later than sooner, but don't give up. Remember the ability is within you, but sometimes it takes time for you to activate it.

So exactly how and where do you begin if you have not done any anal/prostate play before? Well, the first thing is to relax, breathe deeply and slowly, and be 100% open to the idea that your anal area is indeed an erogenous zone. It is similar to the above real life example regarding my nipples. Once I relaxed and started playing with them, not trying to achieve anything except exploring, I discovered that to me it felt nice if I touched them while they were under a thin sheet of fabric such as nylon. I also soon found out that what worked best for me was to touch each nipple with my pointing finger in fast left-right or up-down movements. See what I did here is twofold. Firstly, having always convinced myself that my nipples were totally dead, I discarded that thought and allowed myself to believe that they could be activated so to speak. I started thinking of them as being the sexy things that they truly are. Secondly, I then started touching and playing with them in different ways until I found something that worked for me. In the beginning I did not feel much if any pleasure, but I kept playing and experimenting. Soon I found the perfect touch that made my nipples send waves of pleasure through me. Wow, and I had convinced myself for years that my nipples were all but dead when it came to being erogenous in any way, shape or form. Stupid me. I believe a lot of men have this same issue, for a host of different reasons, in regards to their anal region.

Anally, I myself have experienced 3 different types of orgasms, namely prostate orgasm, outer anal area orgasm and inner anal area orgasm. These can be combined in any which way. If you use an object to stimulate your prostate such as your finger, a dildo or a specifically designed prostate massager, chances are you'll achieve a prostate orgasm. If you touch, caress or massage your outer anal area it too can result in an orgasm. Finally, if you insert a finger or massager/dildo into your anal cavity and move it around any which way that feels great to you, it too can result in an orgasm. These are what I call the 3 major types of anal orgasm. Let me explain how I typically accomplish these 3 in order. However, let me first point out that you should never insert anything in your butt without the use of a water-based lubricant. You want things to be nice and slippery inside of you. If you have any medical issues that you believe could potentially be an area of concern when you practice anal play, you should always contact your physician before beginning your journey.

The 3 types of anal orgasms:

1) Prostate play: As you'll know by now, the male anal area comes fully equipped with a prostate which is nothing short of an incredibly amazing super powerful pleasure point. It can be touched and caressed both internally (from the inside) and externally (from the outside). I typically insert a toy that is designed to hit my prostate. These come in a thousand of different sizes, designs and other variations such as inflatable, vibrating, moving, thumping, thrusting, etc. Some are designed with a tab to hit your perineum which when positioned correctly will massage your prostate from the outside while the internal massager, the main part, will do the job from the inside. I personally find that the ones that have an aggressive bend/curve push too hard for my liking. I prefer the ones that are only slightly tapered/bent towards the prostate. I just relax, lay on my back, though sometimes I'm on my knees with my head resting on the mattress, and breathe slowly and deeply. Soon the waves of pleasure build and build until I either climax or decide to roll off the wave to start the process again. I should note that I almost never turn on the vibrations if the toy I'm using is equipped as such. I personally find that any vibration takes away more than it gives. That is not to say that the opposite can not be true for you of course. I once had a partner who used her finger to stimulate my prostate from the inside while she used her tongue to stimulate my prostate on the outside. I remember one specific experience with her that just blew my mind, mind you I had just climaxed a couple of hours earlier.

2) Outer anal area play: For this activity, I usually lay on my back and use plenty of water-based lubricant. I slowly slide my fingers/hand across the whole outside area. Sometimes I push on my anus with my fingers in a steady pattern until I climax. Here I like to push in quick succession. Again, you might prefer slow pushes against your anal area. I've also found a great tool in using a butt plug that is too large for me. I simply push it rapidly against my anus using plenty of water-based lube. Only the very tip will enter and only by a very little resulting in the large diameter of the plug stopping and pressing against my outer area for each in-and-out slide. I once had a partner who gave me incredible anal orgasms by using her tongue, also known as analingus.

3) Inner anal area play: For this type of play, I always use a dildo-like object and I start by simply pushing it all the way in and just leaving it there while I relax. Soon I feel waves of pleasure slowly starting to build. I then very slowly start moving it in and out. Very, very slowly. After I begin moving it, it doesn't take long before it feels as if every cell in my inner anal cavity is sending pleasure signals through my whole body. It is as if there are millions of happy nerve endings that once touched by the slow in-and-out movement of the dildo explodes in ecstasy. This too ends up with me climaxing. Again, note that you might prefer quick in-and-out movements. Also, If you like me have a female partner, this is where pegging is such a great way to switch sides so to speak. Interestingly, before I'm warmed up and in the zone, moving the dildo inside of me does not produce much in terms of any feelings. But once turned on as described, it is as if an endless number of nerve cells lining my walls become engaged. Mindblowing does not even begin to describe this feeling. It has been said that there is not a lot of feeling inside of you apart from your prostate, but I strongly disagree. As mentioned, I can combine these 3 types of anal orgasms in any which way. Do I have to tell you that they are all beyond incredible in a totally indescribable way?

Whether your healthy sex life involves a 50/50 split between the two, penile and anal, or any other ratio (there are no right or wrong here) does not matter. Let's say that you used to enjoy both penile as well as anal/prostate orgasms every week, but now you've married the love of your life and for the next 3 months you and your spouse have intercourse every single day without any anal/prostate activity on your part during this period. At some time, you might want to pick up the anal/prostate play again and this could of course involve your spouse or it could not. What you will realize is that you have not lost the ability to achieve the anal ecstasy that you practiced in the past. Not the slightest. Once you master the technique, it's like getting back up on a bicycle. You can practice it whenever you want to and taking long breaks from it does not mean that you lose the ability.

Some discover the delights of anal play at an early age while others go through their entire life without ever knowing about it, much less having tried it. It is incredible and sad to think that some men are not interested in giving anal/prostate play a try. They will sadly never know what they missed out on.

As to myself and anal play, I discovered early on in life that it felt good to explore my anal region and experiment by touching it in various ways. When I combined this play with traditional penile masturbation, I would end up climaxing with a much stronger orgasm. At the time I did not even consider the possibility of orgasming from anal play alone. However, when I was about 20 I had my first anal only handsfree orgasm and it was a total game changer. I had inserted a plug and it just felt great and it kept building and building until I exploded in my first true anal orgasm. It was a wet orgasm. I had a warm incredible feeling running throughout my body the rest of that day and felt like I was walking on a cloud. My whole body was in a huge stage of bliss for hours afterwards and if a did an anal contraction I could feel the waves of pleasure washing all over my body as aftershocks.

The hunt was now on. With this newly discovered knowledge I was keen to do it again. And again. Compared to a traditional orgasm, the anal orgasm shook my whole body in uncontrollable spasms and, importantly, the orgasm was not just centered around my genitals, but rather, while erupting from my anal region, took control of my entire body from head to toe. I was holding on for dear life as gigantic pleasure waves engulfed me. I would simply lose control and be at the mercy of the orgasm that erupted throughout my entire body. It also lasted sooooooo much longer compared to my traditional penile orgasms and that included the build up as well.

As I became more experienced and prostate massagers were invented, I learned that a lot of it had to do with my prostate, something I was totally unaware of the first many years.

Little by little, I taught myself how to control the process so to speak. My anal play session can last a whole day and into the next day or days as well. I'll take a few breaks throughout as needed to catch my breath. Sometimes I can last 3-4 hours before I need a break. I have learned exactly how to ride the wave of anal pleasure without crashing/falling off the wave, meaning having a wet orgasm. Wave after wave of pure bliss is swallowing me from head to toe. I'm experiencing dry orgasm after dry orgasm, each one stronger than the previous one until I feel that the next one is going to mean the final point of no return, i.e. a wet orgasm. That is when I roll off the wave and then simple start the process again. The wave, dry orgasm, will be there waiting for me so I'm on it straight away, and that again leads to a stronger one, then an even stronger one and so on before I roll off again. Finally, when I have to end my session for whatever reason, I will push myself over the edge and let the wave come crashing down all over me as I explode in a mind-blowingly body-shaking hands-free ejaculatory orgasm, the intensity of which is often in direct proportion to the length of that session, i.e. the longer the session of dry orgasms before the final wet orgasm, the more intense and toe curling it will be. It's as if fireworks are exploding inside my brain. Once you experience it, you will know that it is impossible to fully describe it.

Sometimes I will go for the wet orgasm early on in the process, which could even be on the very first set of waves that I catch. Other times, as mentioned, I can ride waves for hours, take breaks, ride them again and so on, often changing positions and massagers. You could compare this to a surfer riding a wave, once the wave is about to come crashing down on him, he steers himself clear before it swallows him up and simply catches the next wave. The same thing with anal play, you ride the waves and when you feel the wet orgasm being imminent, you control yourself, hold back, before you reach the point of no return. Then you simply catch the next wave and so on. This might take practice but the journey will be highly enjoyable!

All men know that once you experience a wet orgasm, you are entering into a refractory period. "When can I do it again?" I hear somebody ask. Well, the answer is that you can do it again whenever you want to. After a wet orgasm, I have sometimes done another session just a few minutes later and some of those sessions have been really intense. I believe this is because the aftershocks from the first session is still running through my body which then immediately picks up on the new anal caressing and the waves start building again right away. Other times I wait for days. It all depends on what I have going on in my life and what I feel like doing. There are no rights and wrongs here. Listen to your body, but always remember if you start feeling any pain or discomfort, it is your body telling you to stop and take a break.

Once you've experienced an anal orgasm that washes over your entire body to a degree where it culminates into nothing short of an out of body experience where you completely lose yourself, you'll know that you've just experienced the best feeling in the world. Yes, I said it, the best feeling in the world. And you will realize how different it is compared to a normal penile orgasm. They are just two entirely different animals. Compared to an anal orgasm, a penile orgasm is typically only felt around the penis area and it is a much shorter lasting affair.

I firmly and strongly believe that when experiencing an anal orgasm, us men are very similar to women having an orgasm. As an example, you find yourself grabbing onto the sheets which almost feels like holding on for dear life. How many men needs to hold onto the sheets when laying on their back during intercourse with a woman? How many men are shaking in uncontrollable spasms when climaxing during oral sex? I have never seen or heard about it. But if it is the woman who's on her back during intercourse, or on her knees for that matter, and she's achieving an orgasm, chances are she's holding onto the sheets with white knuckles, her body writhing in pleasure. I'm not saying that all female orgasms are super strong like that, but clearly women, compared to those of us born with a penis, generally react much stronger, both in terms of their physical shaking and verbal moaning, when orgasming. Once hit by an anal orgasm, us men can experience a very similar orgasmic reaction, i.e. we'll mirror the women's behavior very closely, and this, dare I say it, could clearly be seen as the missing link between male and female sexuality. Another point to make here is that you could compare a penile orgasm to a clitoral orgasm. Most women will react much stronger during climax if they are being penetrated compared to women experiencing an orgasm triggered by clitoris-only stimulation. The penetration could involve touching of the clitoris or it could not. Male-wise the anal play could involve touching of the penis or it could not. You see the similarities here in regards to women vs. men? The penis/clitoris orgasm is similar between the sexes and so is the much stronger orgasm, let's call it the penetration orgasm, whether it is the woman being penetrated vaginally or the male being stimulated/penetrated anally. Finally, women too have a kind of refractory period when having just experienced a clitoral orgasm as the clitoris becomes over sensitive to the touch which again mimics the glans on the male's penis after a penile orgasm. When having orgasms that do not involve the direct touch of the penis/clitoris, and in the case of males do not involve ejaculation, both males and females are capable of being multi-orgasmic without entering into a refractory period. Some compare women's G-(Grafenberg spot) to men's P-spot (Prostate spot).

When masturbating, must of us fantasize about something erotic or, alternatively, just focus on our body and the signals it is sending us. Like most, I've done both. I figure during traditional masturbation, homosexual men typically fantasize about being with another man while heterosexual men fantasize about being with a woman. This is where it gets tricky for me.

Being a heterosexual male, I do not find it erotic to imagine myself having sex with another man. In fact the thought of two men having sex with each other is a huge turn off for me, not that there is anything wrong with it, in fact there is absolutely nothing wrong with it, it's just that that's the way I'm wired. We are all different when it comes to what turns us on or off, if in doubt just look at the literally hundreds if not thousands of porn sub categories. We all have our turn-ons and our turn-offs and we're all different. What turns me on might be a turn off to you and vice versa.

Given that I often wear lingerie when having an anal solo session, you might very well ask: "What is that all about?". Good question. Please allow me to answer as good as I can.

When masturbating anally, sometimes I just concentrate on and enjoy the feeling that emanates from my prostate and flows throughout my body in the form of pleasure waves. Other times I focus on an image in my mind of being a woman who's on the receiving end of anal sex. In other words I project myself as a woman being made love to anally. Since I'm on the receiving end, the penetrated, I can not identify with the man. It would not work for me. As a result, I imagine that I'm the woman in total ecstasy. In my mind I conjure up an image showing the woman's face. It is radiating total uncompromised pleasure. Whether it's a guy doing her or another woman with a strap-on is not important. I don't focus on that part, only on being her during her head to toe mind-blowing body-shaking anal orgasmic adventure. So, dear reader, that is why I often wear lingerie when playing with massagers or other toys. Overall, it just helps my mindset when I identify as the woman. Importantly, it also effectively puts my penis completely out of my mind.

Other times when I'm looking for a penile masturbatory orgasm, I can watch a similar clip of erotica in my mind of a woman who's being made love to anally or vaginally and now I'm identifying with the man, giving the woman pleasure as I climax inside of her. This is because I'm now touching my penis and, as a result, I'm imagining being the man in the fantasy/clip doing the woman. I.e. I'm the penetrator and not the penetrated. In that case I would not wear lingerie of course as it would be counterproductive. Same thing goes when I'm having traditional sex with a woman, I have never worn lingerie. It doesn't fit the act and mindset because now I'm the male making love to a woman. So that is what's on my mind, i.e. I'm the penetrator. I'm sure this might sound very confusing to some of you, but hey that's what makes the world beautiful. We are all different and unique.

Importantly, it is crucial for you to always listen to your body. If you are a just beginning this journey, always start out small when it comes to the massager's/dildo's size. If you feel pain, stop! It's your body telling you to stop. Go sloooooowwwwww. Never ever be in a rush as that is counterproductive in more ways than one. Your body needs to be fully relaxed with nothing else on your mind. Being in a rush screws up your mind (in a bad way!). You need to be able to relax, breathe deeply and slowly, let yourself go, throw all worries aside. Start with a smaller object and you can slowly build up to larger sized items. If you feel pain, stop, breathe slowly, relax and start again with something smaller. There are a plethora of free self-help on the internet when it comes to breathing exercises, meditation and other ways for you to get into a relaxed mode. While I'm not a user and therefore can not recommend it, some turn to drugs in order to relax and clear their minds. Finally, there are audio too that is freely available on the internet which can help you relax including breathing exercises to get into the right mood. As to watching porn, during your anal sessions, I do not do it as it takes the focus away from me. As mentioned, I find that it works much better for me to close my eyes and just enjoy the signals and reactions from my body or, at other times, I focus on an image, in my case a woman, especially her face expressing total ecstasy.

Experiment my friends and you will undoubtedly find what works best for you. The best of luck in your anal adventures. If you are new to this, may the journey begin and may it bring you much pleasure!